In my experience, sex, gender, and sexuality are often thought of in terms of being black and white when in reality, things should be considered the way a printer produces a wide spectrum of color by combining CMYK. Can I Just Call You It? is a book with a companion poster written, illustrated, and designed to show how interactions and experiences in my life differ from that of a cisgender person in significant ways. It is also intended to educate people on how to be a better ally.